The Psychology Behind Procrastination: Why We Do It And How To Stop
"Oh, I'll do it later."
"I'll do it first thing tomorrow morning."
"I'll start working out on Monday."
Yeah, right. Lol. Sounds a lot like procrastination to me. Unnecessarily delaying or postponing something is procrastination by definition. To a certain degree, we all do it. Unfortunately, all it does is take your power away from you. It keeps you idle at the cost of the life you could be living or the goals you could be achieving.
Firstly, you need to understand that procrastination goes way beyond laziness. It is deeply rooted in psychology. The biggest factor that causes procrastination is fear of failure. But what if you don't succeed, right? What if you fail? This fear leads you to avoid tasks that you perceive as potentially leading to negative outcomes. Another contributor is anxiety. I notice that this is a major driver of procrastination in my life. Procrastination can be or feel like a coping mechanism for people who suffer from anxiety. This is because delaying tasks can help avoid the perceived stress or discomfort associated with them.
Furthermore, self-doubt, or a lack of belief in your abilities, can contribute to procrastination as you may fear negative judgement or failure. A lot of people struggle with decision fatigue. This means that when you are faced with a seemingly overwhelming number of decisions to make, your cognitive resources are gradually drained, resulting in procrastination.
External factors that lead to procrastination include poor time management where you misjudge the time required to complete a task or you simply fail to prioritize tasks effectively. Distractions can be a major cause as well. A cluttered or distracting environment can make it difficult to focus and complete tasks. This is why you should regularly declutter your living spaces, and day-to-day gadgets like your laptop and cellphone.
So, why does it feel so good to do nothing then? Scientifically, procrastination is a complex behavior rooted in a "battle" between your brain's limbic system (emotional and instructional) and the prefrontal cortex (planning and decision-making). The limbic system craves immediate gratification and pleasure, while the prefrontal cortex is responsible for long-term planning and goal-oriented actions. When you avoid a challenging task, your brain releases dopamine (your feel-good hormone) which then creates a sense of relief and pleasure while reinforcing the behavior of procrastination.
Scientifically, procrastination is a complex behavior rooted in a "battle" between your brain's limbic system (emotional and instructional) and the prefrontal cortex (planning and decision-making).
Here's more on the relationship between dopamine and procrastination.
Now you know what procrastination is and why we do it. Here are some practical steps you can start implementing today to overcome procrastination and achieve your goals:
- Break Down Tasks: If your main root of procrastination is decision fatigue or anxiety, I'd advise you to divide your tasks into smaller, more manageable steps. For example, if you're organizing a girls' night in for the winter, start by selecting the venue. Once that's done, create cute invitations and send them, then you can plan the activities for that night. See? Simple.
- Set Realistic Deadlines: Establish clear yet achievable deadlines to create a sense of urgency and accountability. Especially for university students, this will save you from studying for tests the night before.
- Delayed Gratification: Since your limbic systems craves instant gratification, you should work in the opposite direction. You can do so by introducing a reward system to your tasks. Say, for instance, if you complete a 4 hour study session before 3PM (a realistic deadline), you can binge watch your favorite series. This will allow you to push through the task because you want to watch that series.
- Prioritize tasks: Identify your most important tasks and focus on those ones first. Having To-Do list can also greatly allow you to focus on what is most important. I use the Todoist App on my phone and laptop and it allows me to not only plan my day, but organize and color code my tasks by priority, which then allows me to focus better.
- Set SMART Goals: In order to build momentum, you need to set Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Time-bound goals. This will help you be consistent and focused.
What’s one task you’ve been putting off? Drop it in the comments, and let’s tackle procrastination together!
This piece really resonates with me. I've been thinking about how i can resolve my laziness for a while now, and this perspective is helpful.
ReplyDeleteI'm currently working on having to find a deal breaker motivating me to do particular task , and this has given me some valuable insights.
I'm glad I could help. Remember that it will not be an overnight success, you need to make overcoming procrastination a daily intention.
DeleteI am so amazed. This whole time I have been pushing my studies to the next day and rest out feeling happy in my comfort zone. But by reading this enlighted me to do better, where by I can start implementing some practice. I will surely work on breaking my tasks in to smaller ones and setting realistic deadlines.
ReplyDeleteI'm proud of you for making that decision. And remember to reward yourself afterwards.
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ReplyDeleteThis has been very eye opening and it has detailed almost everything one had to know about procrastinating and it makes me feel encouraged and motivated 🫶
DeleteI'm glad you found insight here. It's actually interesting how deeply procrastination is rooted in our brains, but with intention and consistent effort, you can overcome it and break the cycle. You've got this!
DeleteWell, this is quite a fascinating piece and I thought I knew all about procrastination but now I can take that back.
ReplyDeleteI’ve been trying so hard to focus on my time management when it comes to my studies, hustling/ working hours and my free time but one of the three always exceeds the rest a little bit more than it should. This causes my brain relax and throw the tasks I should do on that particular day to the following day. However, now that I have read this amazing piece, I’ll jot down the steps how to avoid procrastination and also try out that app you use. Maybe it might help me become better at managing my time. Thank you so much.
Oh my! The way I’ve been fighting procrastination for the past two years, and finally being able to read this, and it being an immediate impact, I’m honestly grateful. Procrastination is one hard habit to get rid of, but with the right guidelines one can eventually overcome it and surely I’ll overcome. Thank you for this information!!
DeleteYou are most welcome! Procrastination does certainly seem like a giant in our lives, but remember that change is possible, with the right intentions.
DeleteI’ve been procrastinating getting my license for a whole year now.
ReplyDeleteI feel this blog has given me a better view on why I should stop procrastinating and just do it.
Thank you .
You're most welcome doll. You can do it, I believe in you!
DeleteThis post really resonates with me. Procrastination is really the thief of time hey. I have been putting off getting my license, doing my assignments and later on I start to worry about how I don't have enough time to complete anything. Thanks Gina this was a good read.
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome darla. I'm glad I could help. You've got this!
DeleteThis is so insightful and I know it's about to be a game changer for me! Thank you so much for sharing. I've been putting off important task like instead of completing it in small chunks daily I put it off till last minute and I end up cramping. It's a terrible habit that I've clearly exercised hence, it's harder to get rid off but by consistently going/working against it I know I'll triumph over it.
ReplyDeleteYou said it yourself, you know you WILL triumph over it. And I believe you will, too. I'm glad I could help <3
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